Relationship Break up; I can’t live without him……

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When a relationship breaks up it really can feel like life is no longer worth living. The pain can sometimes be physical, like a rock sitting where your heart used to be. The tears flow freely, nothing else seems important, the slightest little thing can remind you of what you have lost, and you feel like you just can’t go on without this person in your life.

Please believe me when I tell you that this WILL PASS.

Things that may help:

Focusing on important things in your life, like children who need you, parents and siblings who love you, friends who care about you. Ask yourself what you can do for them, how you can bring them happiness. Making others happy is an incredible source of personal joy.

Seek out activities that make you happy. Sometimes when we are in a relationship we give up some of the things we used to enjoy or they get pushed aside for shared activities with our partner. Those things are still there waiting for you, and when you make an effort to re-explore them, you will be reminded of a time before you felt all this pain.

Allow yourself time to mourn. As painful as this is, its a natural process.

Things that will NOT help:

Obsessing over what went wrong and how you can make it right again.

Trying to reach out to someone who has detached and does NOT want contact with you at this time – this is especially important as it totally disempowers you and will leave you feeling MUCH worse, not better.

Seeking psychic insight but only being open to what you WANT to hear. This is a dangerous thing to do as it has the potential to trap you in a virtual waiting room. If you cannot be open to whatever comes up in a reading, then it wont help.

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