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Is he on the moon or in a coma?

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YOU are the only one who can truly disempower yourself. If you want a successful, mutually respectful relationship, one of the first things that you need to do is detach yourself from anyone who is clearly not delivering that. Read the rest of this entry »

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The Greatest Love

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It may sound like a cliche but the greatest love you will ever have is the love you have for yourself.

You are probably well aware of this, you have no doubt heard it many times before but what does it really mean?

The universe often teaches us the greatest lessons in an indirect way. It starts with you having total free will. You are the author of your own destiny. Nothing is written in stone, there is no ‘meant to be’ no such thing as ‘the one’ and no pre-destined path mapped out for us to follow. Read the rest of this entry »

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What are my lessons?

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Soul Connections are about two people who come together to trigger each others deepest issues. Ideally, what needs to happen next is that each person then recognises their OWN issues and works on them for their OWN good.

This all sounds very simple if you are not the one in the midst of it! Read the rest of this entry »

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Ten basic rules for internet dating

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1) Once you have established that you want to get know one another, arrange to chat on webcam. As SOON as possible. This is the next best thing to meeting in person, but with none of the risk. If someone has been misleading about their appearance you will see it right away. If they are only willing to talk to you on webcam when they are at work, when everyone in the house is asleep, or when they are at a friends place, it could indicate that they are in a relationship and just seeking some online interaction. The sooner you find out the better and the less time and energy you will waste. Read the rest of this entry »

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How to do a background check

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images-2Knowledge is power. It helps us to make informed decisions, and avoid costly mistakes. When it comes to relationships, this is especially important. We want to know that the person we are getting involved with is honest, genuine and not hiding anything.

Fortunately, there are some basic free searches that you can do online which can be remarkably revealing. This is not stalking, this is taking responsibility for your own safety and emotional wellbeing. EVERYONE can be found online. Here are five basic searches that you can use to check someone out.

1) Google their name. This often reveals their Facebook profile. It will also show list of people by that name, along with age, location and family members who live with them. This info is not always bang up to date, so if your honey says he is divorced and records show him still sharing a home with his wife it does not mean he is lying, it just means apply caution. Read the rest of this entry »

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There are worse things in life than being single!

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It can often feel as if you are surrounded by couples. In the media, on TV, in the books and magazines that we read, as well as most of the people you know having a ‘significant other’. This can leave you feeling lonely and particularly at social functions and during the holidays.

So you embark on a quest for love. There is nothing wrong with this in principle, but its important to understand the difference between being open to love and stalking it like a hunter in search of prey. Not everyone you meet or interact with has to be assessed for long term potential. Read the rest of this entry »

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Ten things you need to know about Soul Connections

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1) A Soul Connection is NOT the same as a relationship. Soul Connections are about growth and change. This means that interacting with a Soul Connection is always a very highly charged encounter. Issues, both yours and theirs, will be triggered. This has the potential to bring a lot of past hurts and dysfunction to the surface, to remind you that there are things that have yet to be resolved within YOU, and you now have the opportunity to do the work. Just remember that you can’t help the Soul Connection and they can’t help you. You merely serve to remind one another what you each need to work on for yourselves. Read the rest of this entry »

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Soul Mate or Sociopath?

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Definition of a Sociopath

Many of the experiences that we have when dealing with a Soul Mate can be remarkably like dealing with a Sociopath, so how do we know the difference?

When you meet your Soul Mate it can feel as if you have waited your whole life for this person, the intensity is incredible, the love you feel knocks you off your feet and the two of you spend every spare moment communicating and sharing your hopes, thoughts and dreams. It literally feels like you have met the person that you were destined to spend your life with – discovered the very reason that you were born. You always wanted a connection this deep and here it is! Read the rest of this entry »

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You are the Catalyst NOT the Martyr.

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Soulmates are brought together to trigger the issues of one another. This is with the intention, the HOPE, that each person will then WORK on their own issues. Only when this work is done can the couple attempt to be together in a traditional relationship.

If this work is NOT done then any efforts to be together will be met with resistance, pain, drama and disappointment. Read the rest of this entry »

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Friends with benefits

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Something that I encounter from time to time is callers who have a ‘friend’, who comes and goes, vanishes and then shows up again unexpectedly, and also happens to be someone with whom they have shared intimacy. Read the rest of this entry »

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